I wonder how long will it take for Otaku to start seeing Osanai as a romantic option. I know he loves(?) Kinjou, but anybody in real life would jump at a girl like this if they enjoyed their time together this much. He might not even realize but is falling for her though, as he said he was hooked on any messages she sent him etc.
I'm an Otomore fan through and through, but I start to think I would be happy with the Osanai route too
I wonder how long will it take for Otaku to start seeing Osanai as a romantic option. I know he loves(?) Kinjou, but anybody in real life would jump at a girl like this if they enjoyed their time together this much. He might not even realize but is falling for her though, as he said he was hooked on any messages she sent him etc.
I'm an Otomore fan through and through, but I start to think I would be happy with the Osanai route too
In real life things are totally different to anime tropes. Golden rule number one every otaku fails to follow "you can't be your wanna be lover's friend". If anyone tells you otherwise, they really weren't friends but a closet relationship posing as just friends. If you take the friend side you stay the friend side forever. Choose wisely and state your intentions beforehand.
I honestly can't decide if Osanai is romantically interested in Otaku or not. It seems like she is, what with the swimsuit video she sent and wanting to go to the beach with him, but she's also actively helping him get closer to Kinjyou, which seems much more like a friend thing to do. If she were into him, I feel like she'd be less hands-on with her help.
Morgan'sDad said:
I wonder how long will it take for Otaku to start seeing Osanai as a romantic option. I know he loves(?) Kinjou, but anybody in real life would jump at a girl like this if they enjoyed their time together this much. He might not even realize but is falling for her though, as he said he was hooked on any messages she sent him etc.
I'm an Otomore fan through and through, but I start to think I would be happy with the Osanai route too
Otaku has a crush on Kinjyou, but he doesn't really know enough about her for that to qualify as love. Pretty much everything he(and we) knows about her is surface level stuff. She's friendly, she's attractive, she might be athletic, she...likes food? Basic stuff.
I wanna know more about both Kinjyou AND Otomore, so I haven't really picked a side other than Team Not-Himekawa, but I would definitely prefer for Osanai to stay in the friend zone. Otaku clearly needs one of those.
In real life things are totally different to anime tropes. Golden rule number one every otaku fails to follow "you can't be your wanna be lover's friend". If anyone tells you otherwise, they really weren't friends but a closet relationship posing as just friends. If you take the friend side you stay the friend side forever. Choose wisely and state your intentions beforehand.
On the contrary, if you can't handle being friends with your partner, you surely aren't gonna be able to handle living with them either.
On the contrary, if you can't handle being friends with your partner, you surely aren't gonna be able to handle living with them either.
That comes implicit with the "partner" role. A friend is just a friend, nothing more, nothing less. How will she know your true intentions if you approach as just a friend? Of course she will look at other options but yourself. You already defined that kind of relationship from the start. There is also the "do not force a relationship if you get rejected" thing, but that is a different topic for another day.
That comes implicit with the "partner" role. A friend is just a friend, nothing more, nothing less. How will she know your true intentions if you approach as just a friend? Of course she will look at other options but yourself. You already defined that kind of relationship from the start. There is also the "do not force a relationship if you get rejected" thing, but that is a different topic for another day.
It's not that you can never come out, but if you just roll up before you're even friends and say "I'm here to make you my girlfriend," you're a creep.
Just imagine any friend suddenly telling they want to sexually intimate with you.
We are talking about people who don't know how to date a real girl, now you expect from them to come out from the friend zone? If you have bad touch (and timing) you are a creep either as a friend or anything else.
Just imagine any friend suddenly telling they want to sexually intimate with you.
I'd rather a friend tell me that than someone I barely know. The point is you really shouldn't be skipping steps to begin with; you should be going from friendship to dating, not friendship (or not even friends yet) to "ey lets fuk." Though we're talking about real relationships here, not fuckbuddies and "friends with benefits." That's an entirely different beast.
rom_collector said:
We are talking about people who don't know how to date a real girl, now you expect from them to come out from the friend zone? If you have bad touch (and timing) you are a creep either as a friend or anything else.
If you're doomed you're doomed. And it's better to have a shot at moving forward with the chance of being seen as a creep than just guaranteeing being a creep.
Just imagine any friend suddenly telling they want to sexually intimate with you.
We are talking about people who don't know how to date a real girl, now you expect from them to come out from the friend zone? If you have bad touch (and timing) you are a creep either as a friend or anything else.
There's nothing whatsoever wrong with trying to take a friendship to the next level. That doesn't even have to immediately mean sexual intimacy. It's perfectly normal and extremely common to develop romantic or sexual feelings for someone you spend a lot of time with.
The shitty thing you seem to actually be referring to however is befriending someone because you want to be romantically and/or sexually involved with them. That's incredibly gross and the common approach of Nice Guys, who then get pissy when girls they've only known for a month won't let them in her pants.
There are many different ways to form relationships, none of them are inherently correct because it depends on the people and circumstances involved.
That's something I totally agree with. You also bring a topic I haven't mentioned about. You need to learn and read the mood. Often the otaku looks for a permanent relationship to the point of marrying and form a family at early age, while the person of interest looks for a quick relation to gain experience of diverse kinds (frecuently sexual because they are young and curious about the world around theirs). I have met real people scarying off women with pickup lines like "you are the only one I love and I wanna have kids with you". The message is right, the timming is totally off.
Young man! Come on, hurry!
The beach house is right there ♪Let's look for Kinjyou~Kyaha! ★About 80% perhaps...Wait up, Senpai
You're gonna trip and fall, running like that!The first time in my life I'm going to the beach with a girl...
Weeell... It is just Senpai thoughShe's even more hyped up than usual~
